Good News Or Bad News - And The Difference Is?
Ever had somebody give you awful news? What about uplifting news? What's the distinction or is there a distinction?
Uplifting news - stuff or data that makes us glad, content, consoled, secure and approved.
Awful news - the inverse.
In this way, doubtlessly there is a distinction amongst great and terrible news - read on.
Have you at any point gotten awful news however at last things turned out well or superior to anything you foreseen? Have you at any point gotten uplifting news and after some time what you believed was uplifting news wound up being not all that great?
From individual experience I can reveal to you that I have encountered every one of the four -
Uplifting news that was great.
Awful news that was terrible.
Uplifting news that I believed was great yet wound up being terrible.
Awful news that I believed was terrible and wound up being great.
Confounded yet? Well I realize that after some time I was regularly befuddled about the contrast between these two clear inverse messages. In any case, then I discovered that occasionally awful news for one individual can be seen as uplifting news for another person and that uplifting news to one individual after some time can be seen as terrible.
Befuddled? Give me a chance to clarify.
At last it's simply news and what makes it terrible or great or even nonpartisan is not simply the news but rather how we see it, judge it, assess it or respond as a result of it.
How might somebody see terrible news as great you may inquire? Or, then again the inverse, how might somebody see uplifting news as terrible?
In a word - each of us has an extraordinary history, encounters, convictions and values and thus none of us ever observe a similar thing or situation similarly.
Somebody who is a worrier, antagonistic, critical or anxious may see a postponement as awful when someone else who comprehends the idea of there are things we can control and there are things we can't control so why get all irritated about something you can't control or on the off chance that you can control it get occupied.
At last everything that happens - simply happens and what we do is translate everything in view of our desires, objectives, needs or attitudes and these are special for each of us.
Give me a chance to give you a few individual cases. What's more, on the off chance that you will consider the clarification despite the fact that you might not have had the very same conditions, looking at the situation objectively I'll be you can relate.
Before gazing my talking and preparing profession I was a national deals supervisor for a universal association. Long story however the short side is I had an issue with my manager, the president and thus he let go me. Terrible news, correct? Well that was all I expected to choose the time had come to start a vocation that has kept going more than 40 years and has permitted me to see the world (25 nations to date) and work with some gigantic customers and groups of onlookers. So at last this awful news was better than average news.
Here's another snappy one.
Quite a while back I proposed to my better half and she said yes. Uplifting news right? (No judgments here please). Well over the long haul subsequent to doing my best for over fifteen years I concluded that the time had come to end it and why? Indeed, without the horrifying points of interest, the relationship was bit by bit dissolving my self-regard, certainty and idealistic attitude and I concluded that I didn't care for my identity getting to be in that relationship. We separated, agreeably - however we separated. Uplifting news as I was capable - after some time - to recapture all I had lost - candidly and profoundly.
We as a whole have our stories and we as a whole can make arrangements of uplifting news and awful news we have gotten however at last it's all equitable news.
Amid some of my corporate projects I share this straightforward idea - quit approaching your representatives for uplifting news or terrible news - simply approach them for the news and after that you choose which it is. Since their definition could be totally not the same as yours.
Also, the other way around - as an official or director don't communicate - I have some great or terrible news - simply tell your representatives you are very brave and let each of them decipher it as they see fit in light of their own perspectives, demeanors, attitudes, experience, desires and how it may affect them by and by.
